This article looks at the phenomenon of African women living in the Western world copying the worst of Western women’s behaviors. It equates radical feminism with the destruction of the Western family and says that the African family would also be destroyed if African women mindlessly copy radical Western women’s efforts to destroy their men for the historic injustice they believe that their men did to them.

There are enclaves where interracial relationships are still frowned upon. But by and large, this phenomenon is on the upward trend: becoming common around the world -- especially in Europe, Canada, and the United States. A cursory look suggests that interaciality has a longer history of acceptance in Western Europe than in the United States. And when aggregated, interracial liaisons seem less common and less celebrated in societies that are considered conservative, dutifully religious, and politically closed.

The Girl Child marriage is becoming too rampant today in spite of the campaign launched against it in different quarters by the Civil Liberty Organizations, the NGOs and a host of other humanitarian groups. The legal minimum age for marriage under a number of ratified laws is 18. In spite of this legal provision, child marriage is still widely practiced in some parts of the world. In Nigeria, the cases of child marriage are very much ubiquitous in the northern part of the country. Early marriage is a violation of childʼs right which must be put to an end.

Within the last twenty years, major advances have been made in the development of effective treatments for erectile dysfunction. Oral therapy is now established as the mainstay of treatment and new treatments continue to emerge following the availability of sildenafil ( viagra) in 1998. Prior to that, self injection therapies, various devices such penile implants, vacuum devices, inflatable penile prosthesis, and vascular reconstructive surgery to improve penile blood flow, were the treatment options for men with erectile dysfunction.

Communication is very important in relationships, especially in marriages. Lack of healthy communication can kill a marriage. In the Nigerian communities lack of respectful communication continues to wreak havoc. There are cultural overtones involved, as women are not expected to speak openly and freely among men. This creates problems in the on-line chat rooms where women do not participate much.

A tribute to my parents who will celebrate their annivesary on Christmas Eve. Watching my parents, Joseph and Mercy Odunukwe at the celebration of their 60th wedding anniversary, I couldn't help but grasp the full meaning of the phrase----- till death do us part. There we have these two, who have been around each other for so long that they can read each other's body language and most probably mind. At ninety three years old at the anniversary celebration my father looked sharp in his suit.

But in spite of the gradual transformation of the Nigerian men, some still treat women of different color and background differently. A typical Nigerian living in the western world still does not bring his woman roses and cards, he still does not give her hand-written love notes, he still does not take her for evening or morning walks, and he still does not give her backrub or full body massage. Kai, God forbid she asks him to suck on her toes.

I have chosen to believe Gbenga’s story that his father slept with his wife. It has always been my imagination for Obasanjo to reap the fruit of his labour. I want this man to suffer like he has made Nigerians suffered. Even if the allegation is false, the fact that his own son accused him of incest is a testimony that the gods are angry with him. Let Alake and his chiefs stay clear in order for me to enjoy this tragic-comedy. I know I am sounding like a sadist but, suppose the accusation is true, what will then happen to Obasanjo since the Yoruba normally ostracize and socially sanction incest participants?

May-December relationship: the term is assigned to a relationship where one person is considerably older than the other. It is generally acceptable if the age difference is ten years or less; but where the difference is more than ten years, such a relationship is considered May-December: the younger person being in the “spring” of his or her life (i.e., May), while the older half is in his or her “winter” (i.e., December).

Take the beautiful life of Aka Pygmy for example. Aka Pygmy men of Central Africa without any loss of status, cook while their women hunt and decide where to set up the next camp. According to Prof Barry Hewlett, an American anthropologist, breast feeding is common among Aka fathers who are within reach of their infants 47% of the time. Like Aka men, yours truly is learning fast. Now I can change diaper while babysitting, feed my boy without choking him etc.

Dress code is an attack on their gender intellect as long as the same dress code does not apply to male students. It’s a slap on their freedom of expression as long as their male counterparts have not been accused of dressing in a "kinky" manner that distracts female teachers. Such promulgation is unnecessary, and it further testifies to the domination of male adult policy makers over their helpless female students.

It is not only Islam that recognizes polygamy, other cultures and religions also promote it. We should not forget the biblical King Solomon and David who were polygamous. Around the world too, there are local chiefs, traditional rulers and religious leaders, including Christians especially Aladuras that have more than one wife. Some highly celebrated Nigerians from the Southern Nigeria are also polygamous like former President Olusegun Obasanjo, billionaire-politician MKO Abiola, and born-again Lt. Gen. Oladipo Diya.

It took me forever to buy flowers for women. Damn! You spend fifty dollars on flowers, four days later they shrivel and dry out and die. It also cost a little fortune to buy cards and flowers and chocolate and a decent bottle of wine. You do all these just for the end game? I’d rather just go to the end game (which is quick and better and without all the fanfare).  

This woman is determined to teach you a lesson. She wants to show that although she was your ex, there remains a thin line between the daughter of a former slave owner and the son of a former slave. She may deny it but it is obvious she passionately believes you are one of her personal possessions.

All over Nigeria, the beans are being spilled on the sordid past and present of Nigeria's politicians and government officials, perhaps opening their can of worms has become a national past time. Since Omoyele Sowore and Jonathan Elendu pioneered the art of crusading against corrupt government officials on the internet, many others have joined what appears now to be the hottest bandwagon since Chris Okotie and Jide Obi released their debut albums in the eighties which opened the floodgates for the likes of Felix Liberty, Yvonne Maha and the likes to enter.