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Sabella Ogbobode Abidde


Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

lives in the Washington DC area. His previous state of residence includes Minnesota, Texas, Washington State, Florida and Oklahoma. He has a wide range of leisure pursuits i.e. cooking, military and political strategies, the informal economy and diplomatic concerns. He also considers himself a good dancer.

 

His essays have appeared in several Nigerian newspapers including the Guardian, Vanguard, Daily Trust, the Daily Independent, and the New Age. He is also a freelancer for a California-based magazine. In addition, he has a noticeably presence on the internet -- churning out sociological and anthropological articles; and also commenting on global politics. Politically, he is a liberal. He teeters between agnosticism and atheism. He is however, a great believer in social justice, ethics and morality and the rule of law.

 

Until next time, he leaves you with the words of Max Ehrmann (in Desiderata): “Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time…” 

Sabidde@yahoo.com



» African Marriages As Business Ventures (Conclusion)

The grouse from women mostly center on the inadequacies of men: they don’t send flowers; they don’t know how to partner with women when it comes time for strategic decisions; and that men have low self-esteem and would not readily accept a woman who is smarter and or who earn more. Complain about sex is generally kept under rap. Even so, a typical Nigerian woman has a fiery tongue -- lashing out at men for being two-minute lovers.

» Marriages As Business Ventures (Part Two)
By Sabella Abidde | Published 10/25/2006 | Gender and Relationships , Sabella Ogbobode Abidde | Unrated

The United States of America is full of Africans who came to join their spouses and then unceremoniously abandoned their marital homes. One would suspect that that’s also the case in Canada and in the United Kingdom. Nigerians, more than other Africans, are masters of “taking off.” For whatever reason, there seems to be more female culprits than men.

» Marriage as Business Ventures (Part One)
By Sabella Abidde | Published 10/25/2006 | Gender and Relationships , Sabella Ogbobode Abidde | Unrated

There was a time when Africans, especially the men, kept to their promise of someday returning home to marry the women they left behind. And indeed, a great many did without regard to the women’s financial or social standing. Promises were generally kept, and love honored. Others retuned to marry women that had been prearranged based on same or familiar culture, religion, and or family relationship.